Gay Men’s Spirituality: Reclaiming Your Rights God bless you. Namaste. Blessed Be. Salaam. Assalamu Alaykum. Shalom. Those are the good words. Hate the sinner. Death to infidels. Unnatural. “Gay lifestyle”. Adam and Eve, not Steve. God hates f*gs. Those are the bad words. Religion, historically and presently, has been tough on gay men, with their … Read more
Sounds dire, doesn’t it? Here you are, doing the good, hard work it takes to get clean and sober. But on top of your daily struggle, you’re warned (usually in AA) that you may have four other demons to confront: Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired. These are the unsettlers that may tempt you to head back … Read more
I often like to say my clients when I’m providing career counseling and coaching at my office that I’m “one of those obnoxious people who has his dream career.” You know the type: they are happy, contented people who seem to be doing what they love, making a good living, and just all-around having a … Read more
In my private practice of psychotherapy and coaching, I enjoy working with gay men (and others) of all ages. While I see many guys at midlife (especially for relationship or career issues), I also work with younger gay men (also for relationship and career issues!). I admire the young guys I see, and their outlook … Read more
