In more than three decades as a psychotherapist and coach specializing in gay men, I’ve worked with many men who are successful by almost any
Every September, we remember the nearly 3,000 people murdered on September 11, 2001. We also confront a question that is difficult to ask without seeming
Gay men have developed an extensive vocabulary for talking about sex and relationships. We can be tops, bottoms, versatile, vers-tops, or vers-bottoms. Sometimes we
“When did my husband become my roommate?” It is a question I sometimes hear from gay men in therapy or coaching who are in long-term
A client of mine, successful, disciplined, the kind of man who built a real career from nothing, recently told me he had started reading about
Every so often, a client asks me a question that sounds straightforward but turns out to be about something else entirely. He does not begin
