When You Know You’re Ugly: A Gay Man’s Guide to Coping with Physical Unattractiveness

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When You Know You’re Ugly: A Gay Man’s Guide to Coping with Physical Unattractiveness     Facing the Reality of Physical Attractiveness As gay men, we are seemingly inundated with ideas, images, and pressures about appearance.  The photos that are used in gay apps like Grindr, Scruff, Tindr, and others.  The images on the covers … Read more

Gay Men and Appearance Privilege:  What It Is, What To Do About It

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Gay Men and Appearance Privilege:  What It Is, What To Do About It Imitation and Flattery? Recently, I discovered that a gay men’s specialist therapist in Chicago had posted a string of postings in recent months on Facebook that directly coincided with a string of topics of several of my blog articles and podcast episodes … Read more