Why Insight Alone Doesn’t Change Gay Men’s Lives
May 12, 2026
This article comes from my work with gay men around confidence, relationships, sexuality, and emotional well-being. If you want to see what working
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Gay Conversion Therapy Survivors: What Was Done to You—and How It Still Affects You
April 16, 2026
Gay Conversion Therapy Survivors: What Was Done to You—and How It Still Affects You For over 30 years, I have worked almost exclusively with gay
Gay Men and How to Build Real Friendships in Adulthood
April 15, 2026
Why It Feels Harder Than Ever—and What Actually Works This article comes from my work with gay men around confidence, relationships, and sexual self-understanding. If
When a Gay Man’s Career Feels at Risk: False Accusations & Workplace Anxiety
April 9, 2026
For over 30 years, I’ve worked almost exclusively with gay men as a psychotherapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, as well as a life, career,
When Gay Couples Work Together: Power, Competition, and Intimacy
April 7, 2026
As a long-term specialist in gay men’s mental health—now in my 34th year of practice as a psychotherapist and coach—I’ve worked with individuals, couples, and
When Drive Changes in Midlife: The Psychology of Ambition in Gay Men Over 50
March 30, 2026
After more than three decades as a psychotherapist and coach specializing in gay men’s mental health, I have observed a recurring developmental transition among accomplished
